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Well, you start by saying hello, introducing yourself, and forming a friendship based on shared interests, then you can start mentioning that you want to meet in person. As in, “I’m also looking forward to the movie premiere or book signing, maybe we could go together.” Or you could be more direct and say something like, “hey, I really enjoy chatting with you online, would you like to meet in person this weekend?”

One of the most important things to remember when asking a woman out is that she might have concerns or concerns about safety, so it’s your job to be extra polite and respectful of those boundaries. I always suggest that we meet for the first time in a public place, preferably a casual coffee shop, bar, or restaurant where you can both make a quick getaway if necessary. They should also exchange phone numbers beforehand so that you can get in touch if one of you is late or the plan has to change on the fly for some reason.

During the first few dates, your main job is to listen to what she has to say and try to ask good questions that will help you both get to know each other. Good conversation is basically foreplay for lesbians looking for deep relationships, so you should definitely try to keep chatting until the wee hours.